Abstract
The sharing of breastfeeding images, commonly referred to as ‘brelfies’, on social media is becoming increasingly commonplace in today’s society as mothers actively engage with and participate in the online environment. Such platforms afford users various opportunities to belong and participate in online communities. Breastfeeding communities are increasingly common; many women and mothers belong to such communities who are involved in the active promotion of breastfeeding with the aim of de-stigmatising the practice whilst also empowering women who breastfeed. However, this paper will demonstrate that this is not necessarily achieved in practice. Rather, such communities are marred by various dominant ideologies that exist within society and serve to reproduce and legitimise such ideologies. In particular, the capitalist and consumerist ideology seem to be at play in the virtual breastfeeding communities on Facebook and Instagram. Furthermore, these communities often advance and popularise certain beauty ideals placing pressure on mothers to conform to such ideals.
Introduction
Digital technologies and “the smartphone revolution” influences and impacts significantly on daily life (Johnson, 2014, para. 1). The ubiquitous nature of social media has changed various aspects of daily life from the way we communicate and interact with others to the way we interact with the world in general. As observed by Tomfohrde and Reinke (2016), computational and digital technologies have become “increasingly salient in our culture” (p. 556) forming a vital part of our lives. Social Networking Sites (SNS) and mobile applications offer users a plethora of opportunities to create and belong to a virtual community whilst also facilitating the creation of social movements.
As Economos et al. (2009) state, a social movement is “collective action” on a continuous basis to “promote or resist change” within society (p. 40). Social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram which are “widely used among many demographic groups” including parents (Tomfohrde and Reinke, 2016, p. 556). As Ibrahim (2010) identifies, in the context of breastfeeding, such platforms are occupied by supporters and activists who wish to promote breastfeeding and fight for women’s rights to breastfeed in public places (p. 17). Furthermore, such technologies are transforming the way motherhood is viewed and practiced within society. Indeed, Johnson (2014) observes that social media and apps serve to “organise parenting practice” and offer users potentially “new experiences” of motherhood (p. 331). Breastfeeding communities on social media platforms Facebook and Instagram allow mothers to share content and to be part of a community with common beliefs and values; such platforms, centered around the notion of online communities, have expanded the “social support networks” that parents have access to (p. 342). In such communities, the main aim appears to be the de-stigmatisation of breastfeeding within society through the promotion of breastfeeding content and practices on such platforms.
Various researchers have studied parents’ use of social media, more specifically social media behaviours of mothers. The large majority of research on the subject seems to conclude that the practice of sharing breastfeeding selfies in an online environment is empowering for women and allows them to participate and feel a sense of solidarity and belonging in a virtual community. However, an analysis of existing literature and examples from Facebook and Instagram reveal that such studies overlook the fact that the widespread sharing of ‘brelfies’ serves to reinforce stereotypes that exist within society as well as dominant ideologies, namely stereotypes of mothers and women and the ideologies of patriarchy, capitalism and consumerism.
Social Media and breastfeeding
Social media platforms Facebook and Instagram are perhaps the most widely used social networking sites (SNS) in contemporary society. Facebook is a platform that can be accessed both via the Facebook application or the mobile site (Johnson, 2014,p. 342). The “high-traffic” platform has numerous uses including the sharing and dissemination of content, “social connection”, opportunities to join interest groups with shared interests as well as “people watching and social surveillance” (p. 342). As noted by Statista (as cited in Tomfohrde and Reinke, 2016), a significant proportion of the 2 billion Facebook users are of “childbearing and childrearing age”, aged between 18-44 (p. 557). Facebook has thousands of pages devoted to breastfeeding communities and breastfeeding practices in general.
Similarly to Facebook, Instagram is a social media platform and a mobile application which allows users to take and modify photographs, through the use of filters, and allows them to share these photographs and short segments of video content to it’s site (Zappavinga, 2016, p. 271). Instagram is the most popular photo sharing platform with over “600 million users worldwide” as of December 2016 (Locatelli, 2017, p. 2). Characteristic Instagram practices include the sharing of ‘selfies’, “digital self-portraits” that serves to communicate a message or simply as a “representation of something” (p. 2). Lim (2016) views selfies as the “cultural marker of the current generation” stating its popularity not only amongst public figures such as politicians and celebrities but also amongst the general public (p. 1774). He notes that selfies represent “an avenue for self-expression” (p. 1774), “social feedback” and “social calibration” (p. 1775).
Selfies depicting breastfeeding on Facebook and Instagram are labelled as “brelfies” obviously by fusing breastfeeding and selfies (p. 4). By sharing breastfeeding selfies, social media users “construct their identities and simultaneously express their belonging” to the breastfeeding community (Locatelli, 2017, p. 2).
Figure 1: Breastfeeding selfie, commonly referred to as ‘brelfie’ on Instagram
‘Brelfies’, Social Media and Society
According to Tiidenberg and Gomez-Cruz (2015) images have a central function in how we experience, understand and shape the world (p.79). The notion and the concept of the body “are socially constructed” (Featherstone, as cited in Tiidenberg and Gomez-Cruz, p. 81) and defined by cultural and social beliefs, norms and values (Crisp, as cited in Tiidenberg and Gomez-Cruz, 2015, p. 81). Therefore, it could be argued that the various ideologies that exist with larger society also impact on the notion of the body. For instance, Tiidenberg and Gomez-Cruz (2015) elaborate on Featherstone’s (as cited in Tiidenberg and Gomez-Cruz, 2015, p. 81) theory of consumerism to conclude that the “consumerist culture makes us all responsible for our body” leading to the commodification of the female body by emphasising the perfect beauty ideal and stressing the importance of the body as a form of social and cultural capital (p. 81).
Within the digital media landscape, Lasen and Gomez-Cruz (2009) argue that selfies and self-portraits are re-shaping the “knowing of the self” and “relation to our own body” (p. 206). They state that the three important aspects to selfies; representation, “presentation and embodiment” of the self do not simply represent and existing entity but rather they contribute to the “configuration and transfiguration of bodies and selves” (p. 213). Images depicting breastfeeding on social media form part of the ‘’visual economy” and impact on users who belong to the breastfeeding community whilst also communicating the cultural and social elements of society (p.79). The “contemporary visual economy” remains ageist and “heteronormative” leading women to “feel inadequate and dissatisfied with themselves” (p. 79). Furthermore, the modern visual culture is overtly “sexualised” and “pornified” (p. 79). Tiidenberg and Gomez-Cruz (2015) acknowledge the relationship between bodies and sexuality stating that “bodies are intertwined with sexuality” (p. 79) and as Boon and Pentney (as cited in Locatelli, 2017) argue, the boundaries between motherhood and sexuality are troubled; “breasts disrupt conventional understandings of public and private, self and other, subject and object” (p. 2). Asides from the sexualised and pornified views of women’s bodies, Johnson (2014) highlights how women’s bodies are traditionally viewed as “leaky, uncontrollable, open and permeable” (p. 343).
Brelfies, Celebrities and Commodification
According to Marwick and boyd (2011), the internet, Web 2.0 and its social media affordances has changed celebrity culture from a “highly controlled and regulated institutional model” (p. 139) to a ‘culture’ and practice that can be performed and accessed by anyone with access to the internet and social media (p. 140). “Networked media” which involves blogs, fan sites, social media sites and gossip websites have created opportunities for “the circulation and creation of celebrities” (p. 40). Celebrity, a status given to a “famous” person is a complex social and “cultural construct” characterised by “performative practice” (p. 140). Celebrity culture involves the “construction of a consumable persona”, “performed intimacy” and authenticity (p. 140). Individuals who are classified as ‘celebrity’ can be equated to a “commodity” of media industries (p. 140); celebrity culture serves the interests of the media, an institution of power within society. Indeed, Turner (as cited in Marwick and boyd, 2011) defines celebrity as “a process by which a person is turned into a commodity” (p. 140).
Analysing the practices of public figures and celebrities on social media platform Twitter, Marwick and boyd (2011) conclude that such practices serve to reinforce and legitimise “unequal power differentials” (p. 144). Performing and maintaining celebrity status is dependent on fans, followers and ‘non-celebrities’ recognising the “asymmetrical status” and the “imbalance between practitioner and fan” (p. 144). The power structure is maintained by intimacy practices including the sharing of personal images (p. 148) to create a sense of “familiarity” (p. 147) between the celebrity and fans as well as through the process of affiliation. Affiliation is the “process of publicly performing a connection” with fans through the use of cultural symbols, norms and conventions and language (p. 147). Marwick and boyd’s (2011) conclusions suggest that celebrity practices of sharing ‘brelfies’ is reduced to a “co-performance” (p. 155) to maintain the existing hierarchy and power structure. By sharing photographs and images of breastfeeding, celebrities engage in familiarity and affiliation practices to connect with fans who belong to the breastfeeding community. Consequently, such “co-performances” (p. 155) reinforce the power disparity as “fans show deference” (p. 144) therefore reproducing the power imbalance between celebrities and them.
Celebrity Alyssa Milano shares a ‘brelfie’ on Instagram
Indeed, Duvall (2015) remarks how celebrity images depicting breastfeeding are reliant upon and reinforce stereotypical beauty ideals and notions of what constitutes ideal motherhood behaviours and practices. In mainstream and traditional media celebrity breasts are represented as central to the female sexuality intended to be consumed by audiences as “sexualised objects of desire” (p. 324).
Duvall (2015) argues that media discourses surrounding celebrity maternity and motherhood “police boundaries of ideal beauty and motherhood” (p. 327). Photographs and selfies of celebrities revolving around motherhood reinforce ideal and normalised beauty ideals as they are often edited or manipulated with perfect lighting and dominant representations of glamour (p. 327). Similarly, Ibrahim (2010) observes that images shared by celebrity mothers which are staged, “manipulated and distorted” complicate the “existing relationship between reality and representation” (p. 20). The traditional female maternal body is replaced by portrayals and representations of hyper-commodified, unrealistic and unattainable representations of the body (p. 328). This leads to the “policing” of the “celebrity breastfeeding body” which is “reprimanded, sexualised and commodified for global consumption” (p. 327). Furthermore, it highlights the double standard underscoring celebrity motherhood practices and media portrayals; Duvall (2015) advocates that “celebrity breastfeeding both disrupts and normalises existing taboos particularly because the “famous body” is a political vehicle used primarily for the dissemination of ideologies about sexuality, race, gender and class (Redmond, as cited in Holmes and Redmond, 2006, p. 124).
Celebrity Jessie James Decker breastfeeding her infant
The image of Jessie James Decker, a ‘brelfie’ posted on her Instagram account depicts the celebrity mother breastfeeding her infant. The image features both mother and baby laying down and both mother and baby are featured in perfect lighting. Moreover, the mother is dressed in white and is adorned by jewellery while she strikes a pose and stares into the camera rather than at her infant. The composition of this image appears to have been “painstakingly prepared” (Locatelli, 2017, p. 6) with the mother being represented as meticulous and posed. It could be argued that the pose adopted by the mother directs viewers attention towards the mother; the pose adopted by Jessie James Decker could be classified as one contrived to the male gaze and for male consumption and therefore undermines the practice of breastfeeding since the focus seems to be on her beauty. This serves to reinforce idealised images of breastfeeding as a natural practice associating breastfeeding with the notions of “nature, purity” (Locatelli, 2017,p. 6) and beauty. Moreover, it also serves to legitimise existing beauty ideals that dictate that females should be beautiful despite the stresses and burdens of motherhood. Duvall (2015) argues that such images such images reinforce the “unattainable standard” of the “super-working, super-mummy” who has the perfect balance both in her professional and domestic life whilst also conforming to the hegemonic beauty standards (para. 6). It could thus be argued celebrity breastfeeding photographs are merely political vehicles that serve the interests of ideologies such as consumerism and capitalism in the interest of maintaining the status quo and power order in society.
Brelfies and non-celebrity mothers
Stearns (1999) observes how breastfeeding, “a visual performance of mothering” places the “maternal body at centre stage” and “symbolises good mothering” (p. 309). The performance and practice of breastfeeding are “complicated by conflicting cultural beliefs” regarding women’s breasts (p. 309). Within Western societies, female breasts represent femininity and heterosexuality (p. 310). This poses a problem for “breastfeeding women and their maternal bodies” (p. 310). Furthermore, within Western societies there is a “strong cultural preference for sexualised breasts” (p. 309). This places pressure on mothers to negotiate their breastfeeding practices, although it is a natural and nurturing practice to suit the dominant and patriarchal view commonly held in society that breasts are “exclusively for the other” (p. 323). As Boon and Pentney (2015) observe, breastfeeding selfies can be both a “personal gesture” and or a “political act” (p. 1768); they represent an “ambiguous space” that reinforces “rather than undermine the status quo” since they can “re-inscribe cisgender and heteronormative frameworks” (p. 1768). Furthermore, breastfeeding selfies can be “risky” exposing nursing mums to “criticism, online harassment, or the co-opting of images for unsavory purposes” such as porn sites (p. 1760).
Conclusions
Considering the limited amount of research available regarding breastfeeding and technology, conclusions offered fail to provide an accurate and reliable account of the relationship between breastfeeding, social media and society. While the majority of existing literature seems to unfold around the ‘benefits’ of social media for breastfeeding mothers giving them a sense of belonging to a community and as a form of empowerment, it is evident that there are several underscoring mechanisms at play within the discourse. An analysis of celebrity breastfeeding practices reveals the underlying ideologies surrounding motherhood whilst also highlighting inequality within the social structures of society. Furthermore, the breastfeeding celebrity body reduces motherhood to a politicised, romanticised, sexualised and glamorised practice thus undermining the potential of ‘brelfies’ a significant social movement, a form of activism or as a vehicle for social change.
In relation to mothers who do not have celebrity status, it is evident that breastfeeding content has to be clearly negotiated; mothers are pressured to conform to societal beliefs of what constitutes good mothering practices whilst also pressurised to negotiate ‘brelfies’ so that they are not viewed as sexualised. It could thus be argued that rather than acting as a vehicle for social change, virtual breastfeeding communities simply create an illusion of empowerment for users. Rather, women who belong to such communities are faced with various challenges and are coerced and exploited to negotiate their breastfeeding practices.
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Laura this is such an interesting topic! I never really focused much when I saw ‘brelfies’ on the Internet I would just assume that it empowers breastfeeding women and make them feel as though they belong and these groups that participate in the online environment of brelfies exist to empower women but your paper really made me think differently of the topic. I wonder if these photos help other women connect especially those suffering from postnatal depression? It may also be a psychological reaction with positive (or negative like your point on body image) reactions from participants.
This argument opens up a whole new world of online communication for me with communities and new mothers, I found your research interesting that it doesn’t actually help empower and communities and it popularises beauty ideals, because at a first glance I thought it would do the opposite.
I liked how you used really good statistics such as the one that 2 billion Facebook users are of childbearing age, that’s huge but it makes sense.
Your use of pictures in this paper was great and I enjoyed how you researched multiple social networking, I’m sure there is some people that sexualise breastfeeding but I think the people in these mothers groups don’t, it would be a small majority of people that actually sexualise breastfeeding.
I am also interested to get a pregnant women’s perspective because I think they may be more likely to understand how much a body changes during/after pregnancy so I’d automatically assume these group members would be less likely to judge or reinforce beauty standards
I absolutely see that connection between celebrities to create a sense of familiarity actually referenced that a bit in my paper about Snaphat!
Your introduction of affiliation is so interesting I wish I researched this, I probably could have wrote a whole paper on this new relationship or one sided relationship between celebs and people.
Thank you for commenting. Initially, I also thought that such images and content were beneficial and empowering for women and mothers who belong in such communities. However, as I researched more, I realised that it was just an illusion of empowerment in most instances and that the sharing of ‘brelfies’ can actually have negative implications. That is not to say that it cannot also be empowering; simply saying that it is not as clear cut and straightforward as we would expect.
Hi Laura, this is such a great controversial topic to talk about especially with the increased use of social media and social networking sites. It is also interesting to consider that an entire social networking community has been built up based on taking breastfeeding selfies and uploading them to personal profiles and pages. It is also great to see that celebritites are joining in on such a controversial topic and trying to create a norm for breastfeeding both out in public and in the social media and social networking community. I really enjoyed reading your conference and your topic.
– Lauren
Hi Lauren,
Thanks for reading and commenting. Indeed, I chose this topic due to how controversial breastfeeding can be even in the mainstream media. As I researched and read, I realised how the practices of celebrities are not necessarily directed at changing the social norms and beliefs. But rather, they are driven by commercial interests, which Im sure you know impacts on most aspects of our daily lives. What is also interesting, is that it highlights how digital technologies and social media act as a facilitator and somehow a disseminator of the dominant ideologies in society; capitalism, hyper-consumerism, patriarchy and so many more. In relation to breastfeeding, such ideologies underscore the practice of sharing brelfies.
Thanks again for your comment!
Hi Laura,
I really enjoyed reading your paper. I think being a mum in the age of social media can be so tough! It’s easy to see celebrities with babies the same age as your own posting such beautiful photos online and forget how much help they have in the background – that like you say, these photos are often absolutely constructed – and that makes it hard sometimes to feel good about how you look or feel in one of the toughest times of your life emotionally and physically!
In your paper you touched on the brelfie symbolised good mothering and how these connotations didn’t necessarily serve an empowering purpose and I agree. Mothers who do not breastfeed are actually often unable to and they really struggle with this – I almost think the brelfie movement could even be considered alienating by some because it reinforces the strong beliefs people hold about breast milk over formula.
What direction would you like to see the brelfie take in the future? Do you think there is a way it could be really empowering?
I thought your paper was really very well thought out and written Laura, thank you for sharing it!
Hey Sara,
Thanks for reading my paper and taking the time to comment. I appreciate it.
Your thoughts about celebrity culture and breastfeeding resonate my own thoughts as you have read in my paper.
You make a really valid observation regarding how ‘brelfie’ sharing practices on social media can be alienating. Admittedly, I failed to see it from that perspective initially and concentrated solely on the effects and impact on women of non-celebrity status. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
I think the practice of sharing ‘brelfies’ can be empowering but that would be dependent upon a shift occurring with regards to societal views concerning breastfeeding. For instance, the fact that the UK has passed legislation which dictates that women can breastfeed in public places indicates that the negative views( for lack of a better word) of breastfeeding is a cultural thing. It could be argued that it is mainly due to the fact that in Western societies, breasts are sexualised. Thus, I think such perceptions would have to change if brelfies are to have the intended impact of empowering women. However, on the other hand, if breastfeeding was not stigmatised, there would be no need for activism or the promotion of breastfeeding, thus such communities that exist on virtual platforms would not be necessary as such.
What are your own opinions in relation to if it could be empowering?
Thanks again. Will check out your paper!
Hi Laura,
This is a fascinating read! I really enjoyed reading about your research into the concept of the body and the ways in which it can be socially encoded with dominant ideologies. I can see parallel with my paper about Indigenous Australian engagement with Facebook. Here I write about feminist writer (or ranter as she calls herself!) challenging FaceBook for banning her after she posted two topless Elders participating in traditional Ceremony. She had trolls harass her and she was criticised for offending other users!
It is troubling how the breast has become so sexualised in Western culture, to the point that we as women can potentially be shot down for doing what comes so naturally to us.
Thanks again for a great topic! I will research it some more.
Regards,
Bec Allen
Hey Rebecca,
Firstly, thank you for taking the time to read my paper and comment. Will check your paper out too.
During my research I also encountered some case studies (real-life) where women belonging to breastfeeding communities and breastfeeding activists were banned from Facebook. However, I decided not to include it in my paper due to the fact that it could be considered slightly outdated since Facebook banned “nudity” back in 2008 and considered breastfeeding selfies as nudity. They changed their policy shortly after, hence why I didn’t include it. In this instance, activists gathered and protested outside the Facebook headquarters as well.
I definitely agree with you regarding how troubling it is.It highlights the double standards that exist even in modern, contemporary society whereby an act of nurturing (which is usually considered as one of the most basic human instincts for females) is sexualised as you said. Furthermore, it highlights the dark and often taken-for granted side of social media; while it can be a tool for empowerment and solidarity, it also serves to reinforce certain exiting ideologies.
Thanks again for reading my paper. Will have a look at yours and hope we can discuss further.