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#SelfConscious: How Instagram Rewrites and Destroys Identity


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This paper explores how Instagram significantly alters user identities by increasing self-consciousness and the need for online validation. Drawing on psychological studies, sociological theories, and real-world examples, it argues that Instagram’s visual and interactive features, such as likes, comments, and curated profiles, contribute to a shift from authentic self-expression to performance-driven identity. Grounded in Goffman’s concept of the “presentation of self,” the analysis shows how Instagram users often present idealised versions of themselves, leading to social comparison, heightened self-awareness, and mental health challenges. The paper also considers the impact of influencers, trends, and online communities on identity formation, noting both negative consequences (loss of authenticity, collective identity) and positive potentials (self-expression, community connection). Ultimately, it concludes that while Instagram facilitates new forms of social interaction and identity-building, it also reinforces pressures for approval and perfection, prompting users to constantly adjust their sense of self in response to feedback from their digital audiences.

#SelfConscious: How Instagram Rewrites and Destroys Identity

On average, people spend 32.4 minutes on Instagram, posting, curating, and consuming identities (Instagram Statistics 2025: Key Demographic and User Numbers, 2023). Identity is a sense of self or who you are, but on social media sites, it is “not something that is merely self-contained; it is a product of social interaction, constructed and maintained in the context of the larger network” (Boyd, 2011). In a time where social media is a large and growing part of everyday life, users are not just updating followers on their daily lives and receiving content but impacting their identities. Instagram was originally an “application that enabled users to check in with each other, share plans, and share photos” (Gilliard, Baalbaki-Yassine, & Hoffman, 2023). Instagram allows people to create an online identity or persona through the application’s multiple features, including photo and video sharing on posts and stories. Also, the ability to send messages, comment, and ‘like’ other users and their posts is featured, where a ‘Like’ shows your interest or approval. In 2024, Instagram averaged around 2 billion monthly users, highlighting its success and relevance in current society (Gilliard, Baalbaki-Yassine, & Hoffman, 2023). But Instagram is not all positive; the application leads users to mental health challenges, especially in today’s younger generation. Instagram has substantially altered users’ identities by increasing self-consciousness and the need for validation online. This paper follows psychological studies, real-world examples, and current trends of Instagram to argue that the issue of growing mental health problems of self-consciousness and the need for validation is apparent in people’s identities, leading to problems among users.

The role of social media in identity formation is a widely researched topic that has been growing rapidly in the last decade. Still, ideas of people curating their identity have been apparent for years. In the 1950s, Erving Goffman created the concept of ‘presentation of self’, arguing that people act to uphold a certain presentation of self or identity (Goffman, 1959). This is still extremely visible today, but this idea is being heightened due to social media and its users’ power to curate their identities. In general, social media allows people to create their own online identity, where most highlight desirable traits and hide perceived negatives about themselves. Comparisons are created between someone’s real identity and another user’s idealised identity, where self-consciousness and the need for validation stem from altering identities. Instagram is different to other social media platforms due to its original focus on images, which has now created attention towards making an idealised profile and an online culture where the more ‘likes’ a post has, the more desirable that person is, as well as promoting ongoing engagement. A study done in Singapore highlighted that as Instagram use increased, social comparison heightened among users, leading to a change to a more self-conscious identity (Jiang & Ngien, 2020).

All social media platforms, including Instagram, promote the need to create a profile depicting the idealised version of yourself. The ability to constantly curate this online persona leads to growing self-consciousness in users’ identities today. A self-conscious identity “involves a heightened awareness of oneself in relation to others, which can lead to a preoccupation with one’s appearance and behavior, and a tendency to modify one’s actions to meet the expectations of others” (Pennebaker & Roberts, 1992). Self-consciousness in identity leads to growing stress levels and potential loss of authenticity in oneself. Instagram is not the only platform, but it is one of the first whose culture heavily relies on the ‘Likes’ feature. Much research has highlighted that the larger amount of ‘likes’ a post achieves plays an essential part in forming how someone feels about themselves, leading to a change in identity (Seibel, 2019). Instagram also focuses on visuals, including images and videos in posts. (Seibel, 2019) “By posting an image of themself, a user is communicating how they wish to see themself as well as how they wish for others to perceive them.” Therefore, comparisons are made between users and their real selves as well as users and other users, which includes friends, family, influences, or celebrities. When other users have the power to express an idealised version of themselves on platforms, users compare themselves to an unrealistic standard, which leads to increased self-consciousness foreseeable in their identities (Vogel et al., 2014). A real-world study by Voggenreiter et al. (2023) backs this up. Although this study was conducted on Facebook, many similar features are used, including ‘likes’, and somewhat of a visual focus was used. In the study, participants used social media platforms over a week, where researchers manipulated the numbers of likes, and daily checks on self-esteem and emotions were analysed (Voggenreiter et al., 2023). The study results showed that 46% of participants receiving no likes blamed themselves and believed “Because my posts were [not] interesting/creative”, and there was increased self-consciousness. The study found that “When inspecting the situational self-esteem, participants receiving few likes reported significantly lower levels of self-esteem during the social media interaction on Fakebook than participants receiving many likes” (Voggenreiter et al., 2023). Instagram’s features of ‘likes, a focus on visuals and creating an idealised profile led to increased self-consciousness and comparisons to an unrealistic standard, creating an increasingly self-conscious identity filled with stress and loss of authenticity. 

Social media platforms have become increasingly successful by promoting constant attention and creating users who seek validation through the platform to keep them coming back. The feedback users receive on posts comes from many places, ranging from likes to follower counts, influencing their perception of themselves and their identities. This validation they receive is bad for identities because it can create a loss of authenticity as people change to fit cultural norms. Instagram’s specific features contributing to the growing need for validation users have included Likes, shares, re-posts on stories, comments, and direct messages (Seibel, 2019). Instagram has noticed how people and identities are negatively affected by likes and similar features and removed it in some countries in a test period where “the company has explained that they don’t want Instagram to feel like a competition” (Diefenbach & Anders, 2021). When users’ need for validation increases, identity can be viewed as more performative and has a loss of authenticity over their true selves; many studies back up that Adolescent social network users’ reported self-esteem rose when their profile received good comments less authentic but fell when it received negative input (Diefenbach & Anders, 2021). A real-world study was done in 2024, and 74 students currently using Instagram participated. The participants had their Instagram usage and data tracked, and results highlighted that when less positive feedback, including likes and comments, was received, lower self-esteem was visible on surveys (Zulfianti et al., 2024). Further backing this up, a similar study with Indonesian students states that the “survey showed that 78% of 9,477 participants were aware of the behaviour of Instagram users who delete photos if they do not get many likes. This shows that many Instagram users want to share and seek likes as a form of self-validation” (Putri & Kuncoro, 2023). Studies show that users of Instagram have an increased need to seek validation on the platform, whether that be likes, comments, or any other features of the Instagram program. This increase creates the potential to change people to less authentic identities online, as well as increase mental health problems.

Instagram has many other ways it shapes and changes identities, mostly because identity is constantly changing; it is fluid, not rigid. Some other smaller ways identities are being shaped and changed are through influences and trends online. Marwick (2015) says, “Influencers are individuals who have built a reputation for their knowledge and expertise on a specific topic, and who leverage their social media following to promote brands, products, or lifestyles”. A study conducted in 2020 highlighted how flexible people’s identities are when reacting to influencers online (Zhao & Pei, 2020). Zhao and Pei (2020) found that as interaction with influenced content increased, the adoption of certain features of identities was shared, which means you could argue this creates less authentic versions of a user’s identity. Similarly, trends on social media platforms play a part in the curation of identities. Instagram highlights elements of people’s identities, like how they present themselves in posts, including their clothes and fashion. Social media platforms like Instagram reels or other short-form content programs like TikTok greatly influence people’s fashion identities (Danziger, 2021). Danziger (2021) argues that social media sites are personally ruining identity as users follow trends, and there is one collective style. A real-world example is the rise of baggy jeans in the last 3 years; the trend has skyrocketed, hitting its peak now due to the influence of social media and trends. Social media allows flexible identities to change quickly online, whether through influences or recent trends. Therefore, creating what some can argue is a less authentic version of oneself and more of a collective identity.

As just mentioned, there are many criticisms of Instagram. How it affects people’s identities, raising issues of self-consciousness, loss of authenticity and limited variation, but there are arguments for positives. Instagram also allows people to express their identity to a much larger audience. Social media sites like Instagram can also create positivity and increase self-awareness because they reinforce growth and reflection by constantly curating profiles and posts (Toma, 2014). People can also create and build upon their identity by connecting with others with similar interests, whether that be recent movements or hobbies in online groups (Baker & Algorta, 2016). These groups and movements can include real-world examples, including #StudnetLife. This hashtag on social media platforms allows people to view content related to Australian students’ lives. It encourages students to express positive identities in a safe environment filled with people going through similar experiences (Instagram, 2010).

Boyd (2011) highlights that identity on social media platforms is “not merely self-contained; it is a product of social interaction, constructed and maintained in the context of the larger network,” identity is fluid and forever changing. To conclude, Instagram’s specific features of being the visual focus, reactions to posts, emphasis on creating an idealised profile, trends have led to changes in the identity of users, such as, loss of authenticity, self-consciousness, and influences more collective online identity. A study around a large demographic following Instagram highlighted that when there was increased use of the platform and decreased interaction and validation, negatives in identity were visible, like self-consciousness and the need for validation. There are arguments for the positive effect of Instagram on changing identity, including self-expression, identity building, and communities. However, research highlights that social media sites like Instagram greatly impact people’s identities. Goffman’s (1959) ideas around identity are still highly relatable in today’s growing digital world. Social media is “pushing individuals to construct and perform multiple identities. While this offers opportunities for expression, it also risks diminishing authentic self-representation, leaving many to navigate the complexities of online validation and curated perceptions”(Marwick, 2015)

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20 responses to “#SelfConscious: How Instagram Rewrites and Destroys Identity”

  1. Busher Avatar

    Hi George,

    This was written really well and it was an interesting read.

    I agree that Instagram rewrites and destroys identity. In fact, I wrote about how Instagram influencers negatively impact teenager’s identity. It has quite a few similar points to your paper if you want to have a read: https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/ioa/6031/the-price-of-perfection-the-impacts-social-media-influencers-have-on-teenage-girls-identities/

    You briefly touched on some of the positive potentials for Instagram to foster community and connection. Do you think there’s anything that could be changed or improved to support more authentic and empowering uses of Instagram that could strengthen a person’s sense of self? Could be there be some kind of validation that’s more meaningful than just superficial likes? I know this is particularly important for marginalised groups such as those who identify as LGBTQI+

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Hi Busher, I’ll read your paper; I agree that it is extremely important for marginalised groups. Like I’ve said to others, it’s a hard topic because of how big Instagram has grown and how common features like ‘likes’ are to users. In 2019 in Canada, Instagram got rid of public likes and comments but received backlash. So, I’m unsure if there is a way to give only positive validation. Instagram does not have a dislike button, but it is what users do in their minds that makes Instagram features potentially negative.

  2. Jiahao Avatar

    Hi George,

    This is a thoughtful and engaging paper, which helped me understand how Instagram influences identity through self-consciousness and the need for validation. I found the discussion on how likes can influence people’s emotions, partly about their self-expectations and how this leads to changing their online presence quite interesting. It made me think about two sides of Instagram, how it can negatively influence, and promote self-expression and community building.

    Do you think a platform like Instagram can redesign its features in a way that meaningfully supports authentic self-expression without losing user engagement?

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Thanks for reading. To answer your question, it’s a very hard topic with no real answer. In 2019, Instagram trialed having comments and likes only visible to the user who posted, which took some of the pressure away, finally reducing mentalbut the change received some bac health issues, lash and was taken away. So, as of right now, I dont think there is a way without loss of engagement, but with more testing, who knows what the future can hold?

  3. Marcos Avatar

    Hi George,

    This was an engaging and analytical paper, and I appreciated the touch on Goffman’s theory, as I also explored that within my paper. Social media has the unfortunate and negative effect of making its users feel “self-conscious” and ultimately causes psychological effects like social media anxiety to be or perform a certain way.

    Do you think that there is a way for its users to ‘break’ out of this mould?

    Let me know what you think, and if you have a chance, see how my paper intersects with yours.

    https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/ioa/5084/in-pursuit-of-beauty-exhaustion-of-the-ideal-body-image/#comment-4957

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      I will give your paper a read. I agree with you 100 per cent on how important Goffman’s theories were and how similar they are today in social media. To answer your question, yes, there are ways to break this mould that Instagram has tried to explore before. In 2019 Instagram trialed having comments and likes only veiwable to the user who posted which took some of the pressure away poteinally reducing metal health issues, but the change recieved some back lash and was taken away.

  4. Kyle Vasquez Avatar

    Hi George,

    I definitely agree that self-expression and identity can be extremely controversial online, especially when communities and networks have so many echo chambers regarding preexisting and repeated ideas which then challenge or break down whatever isn’t in the status quo. Instagram itself has a problem when promoting certain lifestyle decisions or behaviors claiming to be authentic towards an identity, and therefore should be desired even if those choices come with adverse consequences.

    Great read, very well done.

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Thanks so much for reading my paper and for the positive thoughts. Do you have a link for your paper so I can find some similarities?

      1. Kyle Vasquez Avatar

        Hi George,

        This is my paper, and it discusses how community is fostered through social media, constructing identity and belonging and empowering collective action through it’s digital spaces.

        https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/csm/5071/the-impact-of-online-communities-through-social-media/

  5. hannah.mannion Avatar

    This was such a well-researched and interesting essay, George — Not only did I find this paper informative, but very relatable – as someone who uses Instagram almost daily. Your use of Goffman’s “presentation of self” theory really grounded the paper in a strong sociological framework, and I liked how you used a mix of psychological studies, real-world data, and recent trends to support your argument. The section on influencers and trend-driven identity formation was particularly interesting — it really highlighted how Instagram doesn’t just affect how people see themselves, but also how they shift their behaviour and posts to align with collective online standards, which personally speaking, definitely has impacted what I ‘want’ to post, versus what I ‘actually post’. I’ve found myself second-guessing whether something fits the aesthetic or trend I think others expect from me, and sometimes I hold back from sharing something more authentic or casual because I feel like it won’t perform well or align with what’s “popular.”

    I also appreciated how you acknowledged both sides of the conversation — the negative impacts of self-consciousness and validation-seeking, alongside the potential for self-expression and community-building. It made your argument feel more balanced and nuanced.

    I’m curious to hear more about your thoughts on how users might push back against these pressures. Do you think there’s a way to use Instagram more consciously or responsibly to protect identity authenticity? Or do the design and culture of the platform make that nearly impossible?

    Great job — this paper really made me reflect on my own social media habits!

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Thanks for the comment and detail provided; I’m glad you enjoyed it. I think the original design and culture of the platform were originally made to help highlight people’s differences and show what they have been doing recently. Mostly, I think the culture has evolved over time, and users now feel the need to highlight a version of themself that fits into society or current trends. When thinking on a more personal level, I enjoy and respect when someone shows their true self, whether that be an authentic goofy moment or random photos out of the camera roll. I think there is a way to act more responsibly, but it’s up to the individual users to care less about what others think.

  6. Ebony Ballard Avatar

    Hi George, I really enjoyed your paper. As an avid Instagram User, I found your work really informative, and it made me consider whether my online identity is more performative or truthful, and how the validation from ‘likes’ affects me. Have you considered how Instagram’s visual-based structure, compared to apps like Twitter’s text-based structure, affects the performative pressures of the platform and the encouragement of authentic self-expression? This paper was very well written, so thank you for sharing your insight into this complex topic.

    My paper uses a case study on Taylor Swift’s fandom as a tool to showcase how online fandoms foster a strong sense of community and encourage self-expression, whilst also highlighting the dangers of insular algorithms, feedback loops, and echo chambers. I would appreciate if you could please read my work and leave a comment with any feedback! https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/csm/5296/friendship-bracelets-feedback-loops-and-fan-club-feuds-the-dual-nature-of-digital-fandom-culture/

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Hi Ebony, thanks for reading my paper. To answer your question I think there is definitely still a similar pressure to have a pro-formative identity on more text-based social media platforms like Twitter/X, but as we can see in the growing amount of body image issues in society today, I believe Instagram’s images based program has heightened the need for less authentic identities significantly. There is a need to be more performative, and people compare themselves to looks, lifestyle, and speech.

  7. 22438832 Avatar

    Hey George,

    I really enjoyed your paper, it did such a great job showing how Instagram plays into identity through validation and performance. Using Goffman’s theory really added weight to your points. I saw a lot of crossover with what I was exploring in my own piece on underage users and how algorithms shape behavior, especially around things like self-awareness and losing that sense of authenticity. It’s pretty clear these platforms are impacting people across the board, not just one age group.

    Also, thanks again for checking out my paper and leaving a comment, I really appreciated it!

    Lyam

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Thanks for reading mine! The interesting thing about our crossovers is they highlight how important it is to understand how social media affects you as a person.

      1. Lyam Temple Avatar

        Isn’t this the truth,

        One introspective revelation I’ve had during this conference is realising I’m not the only one who’s had many of these thoughts, I now see I just used to think they weren’t acceptable to share. Turns out, I was way off, and I’m glad for this conference as I have seen that.

  8. Khushi Avatar

    Hey George!

    I found this paper extremely persuasive, it does a very good job of revealing how it is that Instagram plays into these issues of identity , self consciousness and need for validation. Specifically I liked the way you framed the argument through the prism of Goffman’s “presentation of self”; it was a big factor in making the current issues of authenticity on the web seem much more grounded in theory.

    Reading this actually brought to my mind the article that I wrote regarding Emma Watson and their use of social media for advocacy. Even though the focus is distinct, both pieces show how digital platforms condition identity only in diametrically opposite ways. Whereas your paper demonstrates the ways, in which Instagram may ruin authentic self-expression, in my article I discuss how public figures such as Watson attempt to use the same platforms for empowerment and community development. I believe it poses an interesting question; Is it the platform or the conditioning of how to use it that we have?

    Generally, all I can say is your discussion of trends, influencers, and performative aspects of online identity is great work and extremely relevant.

    1. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

      Hi Khushi, thanks for the comment; I’ll read your paper next. I think it’s both. The conditioning of how to use it makes us want to create a less authentic persona online, but programs like Instagram heighten that feeling. Going back to Goffmans theory of “presentation of self” in the 50’s highlights that this idea of wanting to present another version of yourself has been around for ages but social media enhances it.

  9. Xing Bai Avatar

    Hi George,
    Very Interesting read ! I like how you dug into the theoretical and practical sides of Instagram have on identity, potentially at the expense of performing or seeking validation , especially the tension between self-expression , pressure to perform and seek validation. Your link to the Goffman’s “presentation of self” really hits me , as it felt so spot on on with how people act on social media these day .

    Good Work!

  10. Laurence Avatar

    Hi George,

    I find your use of Goffman’s “presentation of self” argument to be a very accurate description of the identity of social media platform users, especially those using Instagram. These users portray a certain identity, usually an ideal identity or an identity that is quite different to their real one, when using these platforms. My question is, do you think this is generally rampant on certain demographics, for example, content creators or adolescents, or does this apply for all users.