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In Pursuit of Beauty: Exhaustion of the Ideal Body Image


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Introduction

The rise of globalisation has interconnected society into different networks and communities. Technological advancements, specifically social media, come at a price and a cost, increasing the expression of creativity and identity for young adults. Allowing social media to become a fundamental routine for some, a networking platform that promotes authenticity, innovation, and connectivity worldwide.

Instagram’s rise in popularity as an image-based platform produces another outlet for sharing, promoting inclusivity and overall innovation in social media; however, it also generated a ‘trend’ in comparing oneself to another. Photo-based platforms have encouraged conceptualising one’s ideal self, constructing a digital identity far from the person’s reality (Vandenbosch et al., 2022).

This essay argues that Instagram negatively influences users’ body perception due to the toxic comparative mindset. While the platform offers opportunities to build an online identity and representation, it also pressures users to maintain a perfectly correct, often unrealistic, online image and identity. There are concerns over maintaining a perfect image, understanding whether the user is an authentic representation or a ‘performative’ presentation, and the social media anxiety it induces in young adults. Instagram has become a widely popular application; however, media consumption must be at an equilibrium for a productive outcome.

Pressure to Maintain the Perfect Image

The introduction of visual media distributed the mindset of comparing oneself to the ‘ideal’ body image. Before social media, physical media (newspapers and magazines) widely influenced body image concerns among young women and men (Fardouly & Vartanian, 2016). With the presentation of celebrities and influencers, trends in the beauty and fashion industry, and accessibility in general public opinion, users are open to the perception of maintaining a perfect image. The idea of a self-concept and identity is susceptible to being influenced by media, whether positive or negative.

With the popularity of image-focused platforms such as Instagram and Pinterest, wide research identifies the positive relationship between social media consumption and body image concerns (Vandenbosch et al., 2022). Whilst being interconnected with people worldwide has benefits, which social media advocates for, a user is susceptible to psychological vulnerability to conforming to a certain standard of appearance. Social media users are often exposed to a constructed life perspective and absorb the content to a certain standard. However, what is real, and what is just a concept?

If a user is consistently exposed to and consumed by a subjective body image, it often alters their perception of their body satisfaction (Suls et al., 2002). Dittmar (2009) highlights that this moving trend of the ideal body in the mass media has been a core link to negative implications. Furthermore, the accumulation of content in different fields bombards the user with numerous ideas, standards and inspiration. On the contrary, it can be argued that over-saturation in content may subconsciously pressure one’s mindset of ‘how to live’.

As Festinger (1954) argues in his paper, there is a primitive drive for individuals to ultimately compare themselves to evaluate their identity and value as humans; this is to reduce uncertainty through self-evaluation (comparison), which can come in the form of consuming media representation about body image and standards. Though comparison can go either way, humans undermine their ability and perceive themselves as worse or unworthy; in this case, they are dissatisfied with their bodies. While comparison is a natural cognitive process, the curated nature of Instagram distorts the perception of reality, making it easier for individuals to feel dissatisfied with their bodies. As a result, excessive social media use is linked to lower self-esteem and body dissatisfaction. 

Further, the toxic cycle of seeking online validation from communities and networks may reinforce lower self-esteem and increased body dissatisfaction. Moreover, constant validation-seeking through likes and comments puts pressure on self-work based on external approval, and this feedback loop can become an obsessive behaviour (Suls et al., 2002). Consumption, often overconsumption, conforms a user’s mindset to what their self and identity should be. This raises the question of whether what the user presents online is a real or a performative identity. 

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Authenticity vs. Performance

In pursuit of beauty, it is easy to fabricate authenticity with a digital facade. How one presents oneself through social media, especially giving the chance to upload digital imagery of one’s life and delving into the concept of curated perfection. It is up to the user with technological advancement and how they present their content. Access to artificial intelligence (AI), photo manipulation, and other editing software sets out a plethora of ways to change or refine content.

Therefore, media consumption and production blur the line between whether users present their authentic selves or something ‘consumable’ for the media. Platforms that rely on visual performance (i.e. TikTok, Pinterest, and Instagram) productively put out visual inspirations from all over the world, producing a certain aesthetic or niche deemed entertaining or of interest, which is the general outcome of these media posts. Therefore, young adults may find themselves trapped between the desire to be their authentic selves and the pressure to create an idealised version of their lives that aligns with expectations and pressures. Wang and Skovira (2017) argue that social media is “performing-for-impression” (p. 6), as there is a performative aspect when people notice cameras being present or in the presence of others. This phenomenon has fueled a comparative race between young adults to appear as something they are not – subconsciously or intentionally – an idealised version of themselves – performing to fulfil a positive first impression from the digital audience.

Furthermore, exposure to perfection in the celebrity or influencer reinforces unrealistic beauty ideals, turning self-presentation into a social construct wherein people consume and judge (Kreling et al., 2022). Consuming media with high curation or production behind the post produces a highly idealised visual, influencing subsequent consumers (fans) of these. Consequently, it creates a subconscious standard for young adults as something of inspiration, which may not be attainable or realistic. Furthermore, this self-presentation is a competitive social construct where individuals continuously assess and modify their online persona. As a result, young adults perceive and create a false image of themselves as performative media. Posting a facade for the sole purpose of making an ideal impression.

At the same time, social media can be a space for freedom of expression, where some users produce visual performances to be an authentic part of themselves. However, there may be pressure to present themselves as a ‘different’ digital identity to deliver a fantasy (Wang & Skovira, 2017). This aligns with Goffman’s (1956) theory, in which he describes people conforming to the role of performers, presenting themselves in certain ways to influence and construct how others perceive them. This idea remains highly prevalent in recent years within social media, as people carefully curate a ‘front-stage’ persona to conceal their realities. The relevance of this theory within the digital age emphasises that visual presentation, particularly the rise in visual-based platforms, encourages people to construct an online identity.

Furthermore, the concept of self-presentation is to control people’s perception to put forward or conform to an ideal image. As a result, self-presentation is fundamental to developing a certain social identity or facade. Often than not, showcasing themselves out of character puts pressure on themselves and causes psychological detriments. When self-worth becomes threatened by external approval, individuals may struggle with authentic self-acceptance, leading to a cycle of comparison and inadequacy. The digital era continues while offering a means of social connection and expression, ultimately adding to this craze of a facade of unattainable perfection, leaving emotionally and mentally exhausted, possibly disconnecting their true selves.

Social Media Anxiety

It is widely researched that there is an association between social media [pressure] and the psychological well-being of young adults. Social media pressure manifests in young adults through comparison, fear of missing out (FOMO), or, as discussed, unrealistic body standards. From these societal pressures, the psychological well-being of each user is at a detriment. Furthermore, social anxiety is exacerbated by social media through hyper-awareness and constant validation from external factors. National Institute of Mental Health (n.d.) defines social anxiety as the constant fear and anxiety of being evaluated by others during social situations. This type of anxiety disorder can have people feeling perfectionism, constant negativity, discomfort with communication, and falling back into time spent online. Further symptoms of social anxiety can be seen as constant comparison, looking for ‘likes’ and ‘comments’ as validation of performance, excessive editing of images, or compulsively putting on a facade.

Instagram does a great deal in manifesting these symptoms through the accessibility of filters and algorithmic promotion of perfect lives, which subconsciously affects the user. The personal and almost intimate experience of social media is up to the individual user, essentially opening themselves to social comparison with the visibility of their lives to others. The desire for validation stems from being judged negatively; self-objectification entails being viewed by others, contributing to anxiety and insecurity. Users experience a social comfort in selectively revealing themselves, perhaps performing a certain way in front of the online community (Collantes et al., 2022). Being a heavily visual-based platform, Instagram users will consume the posts of others and assume that is how they live. This action, heavily validated by Instagram’s features of likes and comments, approves that positive reaffirmation. Instagram’s usage encourages self-evaluation due to its image-heavy environment with interactive features (Ryding et al., 2021).

Not receiving or performing to their expectations when posting may lead to appearance and performance anxiety. Young adults may be prone to trying to regulate what they are producing on the platform as a form of self-evaluation – whether something will be ‘popular’, which is subjected to likes – having a constant thought of anxiety. Regulation of self-imagery on Instagram comes from social anxiety due to self-objectification. Numerous studies present that the validation of content interactions predicts psychological symptoms related to anxiety and self-esteem. With that interaction comes disappointment or anxiety interlinked with low likes or comments.

Highlighting Goffman’s (1956) theory again to reiterate that the constant desire to perform for outward validation causes anxiety because of the subconscious expectation to fulfil an idea. Instagram usage contributes to a heightened sense of self-consciousness, reinforcing self-evaluation, consequently leading to increased anxiety and other psychological issues. 

Conclusion

The rise of visual-based platforms fulfils a drive in young adults for creativity, self-expression and innovation. At the cost, users are vulnerable to being exposed to a culture of comparison and negativity that fosters pressure. The pressure to construct a curated online presence or persona to be perceived as perfect is close to the media being presented and consumed. Highlighting that digital presentation and connection are empowering within the 21st century, and it is crucial to understand the drawbacks and psychological toll social media has on young adults.

There are chances for people to present their authentic selves for the world to acknowledge; however, an imbalance can also occur. Everything is good in moderation. As social media grows, understanding how it can shape identity and self-worth is vital to fostering a balanced approach to online consumption. 


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21 responses to “In Pursuit of Beauty: Exhaustion of the Ideal Body Image”

  1. Cindy Ma Avatar

    HI Marcos,

    Your paper provides a rich analysis on how Instagram fosters unrealistic body standards and performative self-presentation among young adults. I found your application of Goffman’s and Festinger’s theories particularly compelling, helps you to ground your agruement, and also good for me to know more about that. One question I had while reading: Do you think there’s potential for Instagram—or its users—to actively shift the narrative and promote more authentic content?

    Overall so far, I really enjoy the topic you chose for this stream

    Cindy

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hello Cindy,

      Thank you so much for reading my paper. Goffman and Festinger’s theories are something relevant and interesting, especially when applied to social media and contemporary society.

      Instagram’s users have far more power and influence to promote authentic content; as a general user of the application, I see the uptrend of this generation going towards that type of content. However, it is still interesting to note that there is still a long way to go with the performative aspect of this content. At the end of the day, what everyone produces is still constructed and pushing a certain narrative, so it can never be seen as ‘genuine’ at times, but that is where the user has power and owe it to themselves to acknowledge and the content with a grain of salt. It is just general awareness that there will be content pushing a certain agenda, niche, or trend. It may not be harmful, but it has a general subconscious influence on the consumer (us).

      Let me know what you think of the question based on your experience or what you’ve heard from others!

      Thank you!

      1. Cindy Ma Avatar

        Hey, I really appreciate all the information—thanks for responding to my comment! Feel free to check out my paper titled”Gig Workers Utilise Reddit and X to Advocate for Better Working Conditions and Social Change”. CIndy.

  2. savannahleigh Avatar

    Hello Marcos,

    I believe my paper touches on similar themes, particularly concerning the societal beauty standards imposed on women and how the promotion of the ‘clean girl’ aesthetic is undermining self-expression, authenticity, and individuality. Your analysis was both engaging and insightful, especially in highlighting how Instagram perpetuates unrealistic beauty ideals by elevating influencers who reflect society’s narrow perception of the “ideal” body image.

    It raises important questions: What steps must be taken to restructure the platform’s cultural norms? Who is deemed responsible in this context: is it the platform itself, the influencers, or is it society at large that must be held accountable for the decline of genuine digital self-expression?

    Here’s the link to my paper if you’re interested. (https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/csm/5299/charli-xcxs-brat-persona-and-its-collective-reception-a-critical-examination-of-tiktok-as-a-catalyst-for-modern-self-expression/)

    Overall this was a very compelling read, good work!

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hello Savannah,

      You provide a lot of insightful questions, and it will be a difficult but progressive change if there is a genuine discourse. Approaching for how we, as a community, can use the platform as a point of embracing and normalising ‘imperfection’. Humans are never really perfect, so shifting and accepting diversity, real and unfiltered images, and such could be the first step but a long one. Influencers also have a huge role, as they influence their audience; holding them accountable they advocate for genuine and positive self-expression so that people who look at their content see ‘realistic’ self-expression.

      There is also advocating for more conscious consumption, something I touched upon in the concluding statement because, at the end of the day, it is up to the individual people. The general understanding is that what you consume on media will not always be realistic, and an active advocacy would also be helpful!

      Thank you for your comment and question, as it has sparked a lot of ‘who’ and ‘why’ questions within this topic. It is something to think about; hopefully, we will see change. I’m excited to read your paper soon!

  3. sophie.ashby Avatar

    Hi Marcos,

    I have to agree with what you are arguing in your conference paper. Instagram is definitely having a negative impact on users’ body perception today! Your paragraph on social media anxiety, I thought, was a vital part of your argument. FOMO is constantly mentioned today amongst the younger generation. Your closing paragraph, mentioning ‘everything is good in moderation’, could not be more true. If we can understand social media and what it is doing to us, we can certainly use it as a tool to benefit us, rather than harm us.

    If you could please read my conference paper, that would be great, as it covers a similar topic to yours.

    https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/csm/5008/__trashed/

    Thanks,
    Sophie

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hello Sophie,

      Thank you for reading my conference paper. I’m glad you were interested and connected with the section on social media anxiety and FOMO. I think those emotional responses are so prevalent in digital culture today, yet there is little discourse.

      I’d be more than happy to read your conference paper as well! It sounds like we’re exploring overlapping themes, and I’d love to see how you approach the topic.

  4. George Warner 22224293 Avatar

    Great paper; we have quite similar ideas, and it was good to read the direction you went away from where I went. Your paper provided great information about beauty standards and how social media has affected them. My paper follows somewhat of a similar idea and follows Goffman’s theories: https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/ioa/5959/selfconscious-how-instagram-rewrites-and-destroys-identity/. There’s a link if you want to re-read it. Your paper did bring up an important question that does changing some features really fix social pressures or does it just hit the surface of a massive problem?

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hey George,
      Thanks for taking the time to read my paper, and seeing the similarity in our papers specially with the use of theory. Ultimately, highlighting how it needs to be both working with each other to fix the issue at hand – as it is just how people are the drivers of how a platform works. So that is something that needs to be worked on from individuals.

  5. tammysatya Avatar

    Hi Marcos,

    I enjoyed reading your paper! It was a very interesting read. It gave a detailed insight into how Instagram affects young adults’ body image and mental well-being. I found many similarities with my own paper, where I discussed how Indonesian beauty influencer, Tasya Farasya also promotes curated beauty content that affects how followers perceive themselves.
    Both papers show how influencers and Instagram content can blur the line between authenticity and performance, often leading to pressure, anxiety, or the desire to conform to unrealistic beauty standards. Do you think influencers should be more transparent about editing and filters as part of their content, or do you believe it’s the responsibility of platforms or users to be more media literate?
    If you’re interested in reading it and sharing your thoughts, Here’s the link:
    https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/csm/5786/selling-the-ideal-tasya-farasya-and-the-rise-of-instagram-driven-beauty-standards-in-indonesia/

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hi Tammy,

      Thank you for reading the paper. I will definitely read your paper to see how specific influencers take on the role of the issue. But to answer your question, I think that nowadays people are well aware that the role influencers have, their main role being to influence a certain niche, it is up to us the consumers of the media to understand and evaluate the content that is circulation – ultimately being more media literate.

      I’ll let you know my thoughts on your paper soon!

  6. Busher Avatar

    This was an interesting read. I 100% agree that Instagram contributes to body image issues and performative identity among young people, which I also touched on in my paper.

    Do you think we may be placing too much blame on the platform itself though? I believe traditional media and much of the beauty industry is equally to blame for shaping these ideals. It begs the question that if Instagram users feel such pressure to present perfection, is it because society rewards certain appearances more than others offline too.

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hi Busher,

      Thank you for the read.

      I believe that to an extent, we can take the role of blaming the platform for what is has turned into. While Instagram can aplify certain archetype or ideals through algorithm and the visual nature, it is operating within a larger system that already prizes on specific standards – shaped by, like you said, traditional media. So it is not just the platform or media itself – but rather a reflection of deeper societal values.

  7. Danica Molina Avatar

    Hello Marcos,

    I thoroughly enjoyed reading through your paper. It provides an insightful analysis of how Instagram’s visual nature plays a part in the culture of social comparison and body dissatisfaction. I especially appreciate how you’ve linked the psychological theories to further explain the behaviours that are seen by the users of the platform.

    I’d be interested in hearing your thoughts on the growing awareness of mental health issues around social media use. Do you believe that Instagram users are becoming more aware of the psychological effects of the content they consume? Or do you think the drive to conform to unrealistic standards is still an escalating issue?

    All the best,

    Danica

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hello Danica,

      Thank you for reading my paper – I thoroughly enjoyed reading your paper in the other stream.

      I believe that since social media has been used for a long period of time now, young adults specifically are now well aware of how media consumption has such psychological effects on the user – both positive and negative. The conversation is still prevalent, where some influencers are actually enforcing a ‘detox’ or even a mindful consumption and use of social media to avoid our over use – i.e. doom scrolling has recently been a negative trend that has become prevalent which has negative influence to our mental health and well-being. Further, the focus on a specific standard has always been an issue but there are some celebrities, influencers or users advocating to embracing the ‘normal’ – whatever shape, form or appearance that is within a diverse scale.

  8. Jayne Avatar

    Hi Marcos,

    Thank you for sharing your thought provoking paper – I noted that you highlight research by Festinger and the natural drive we humans have to compare ourselves to each other, which when used within the performative or idealised body image of Instagram, as you discuss, we are doubly effected.

    After reading papers that discuss algorithms, there seems to be enormous pressure for us to look or present ourselves in a certain way and juggle our identities on and offline.

    With the accessibility of social media – I wondered if you think that this greater diversity of voices will help put a little more balance to the images we see?

    Thank you again for your sharing your paper.

    All the best

    Jayne

    1. Marcos Avatar

      Hey Jayne,

      I agree that the papers about algorithm – specifically Instagram’s system has a pressure to curate themselves and appeal to an online narrative or aesthetic.

      That being said, I do think that the accessibility of social media offers potential for balance. It’s encouraging to see more diverse voices gaining visibility and challenging dominant normals. While the system and algorithms has certain biases, this broader representation could slow shift what’s considered “ideal” in the public eye.

      Thank you again for engaging with the paper – really appreciate your insights.

  9. Alby Lai Avatar

    Hi Marcos,

    I agree with your perspective on how Instagram content and influencers affect people’s self-esteem and mental health. Beauty standards shouldn’t be decided by the toxic mindset on social media. I like your application of Goffman’s theories; it helps to support your argument effectively.

    I’m curious, do you think the government should be involved to regulate the contents on social media? Or should the platform itself take the responsibility?

    Thanks

    Alby

  10. Kai_Armstrong Avatar

    Hey Marcos,

    You raised an important question about the pressure users feel to maintain a “perfect” image online. I’d argue that while this pressure may feel internal and self-imposed, it’s largely socially reinforced by the design and culture of Instagram itself. The platform thrives on visuals, likes, and comparison. It rewards polished aesthetics and high engagement, which encourages users to curate only the most idealised version of themselves. Even though users technically choose what to post, Instagram’s algorithm plays a huge role in what gains visibility, subtly nudging people to conform to certain standards if they want to be seen, validated, or grow an audience.

    So, while many might say “I put this pressure on myself,” it’s important to recognise how the structure of the platform shapes that pressure in the first place. The fact that young users feel the need to filter their images, edit their captions, or gauge the right time to post for better engagement all points to a system that incentivises perfection and discourages vulnerability.

    Do you think there’s a way Instagram could be redesigned to promote authenticity without sacrificing its appeal?

    Cheers,
    Kai

  11. Khushi Avatar

    Hi Marcos,

    I thought this essay was truly compelling, it is a well considered contemplation of how Instagram affects body image and identity with a great mix of academic theory and real-world relevance. I particularly valued the fact that the relationship between performative online behaviour and mental health pressures is well-explained. As a reader, I really felt that the discussion captured the tension between the authenticity and digital performance very well.

    Great work 🙂

  12. Shannon Kate Avatar

    As I commented on https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2025/ioa/6031/the-price-of-perfection-the-impacts-social-media-influencers-have-on-teenage-girls-identities/, do you think the answer is better digital literacy (understanding algorithms etc), or better understanding of self worth and self-esteem for young girls? And if the latter, how does society go about that?

    Also, do you think there are some users of instagram especially that don’t really care about likes and shares, monetisation, or changing themeselves to suit the platform’s audience? I ask, because I have three instagram accounts (@shannonkatereadsstuff @thepilbarapup and @shannonkateplants) and I honestly don’t really give a crap about how or if my content is recieved, I just like documenting those elements of my personality (what I read, my dog and my plants respectively). Likes are a bonus, but not necessary, and I definitely haven’t changed my content to match what the algorithm wants. I wonder if more users could take on this attitude.